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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 05:33

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Are narcissists happy people generally?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How do you deal with a neighbor stealing?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What's the most incredible coincidence that ever happened to you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can you recommend a simple song with an awesome solo? What makes the solo stand out?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.